When the impulse to share becomes obligatory, when personal boundaries are no longer respected, when only the shared space of togetherness is acknowledged, and private space is denied, fusion replaces intimacy and possession co- opts love. It also becomes the kiss of death for sex. Deprived of enigma, intimacy becomes cruel when it excludes any possibility of discovery. When there is nothing left to hide, there is nothing left to seek.

And in the realm of sex, if you have easy access, there’s usually no need to put a lot of effort into seduction. While it is said that familiarity breeds contempt, and that’s true in some instances, we suspect that it more frequently breeds boredom and lack of interest, which are the real antitheses of love. Bear in mind that your partner will always remain a mystery, at least in some ways. This mysterious element is often negated by the intrusive demands of “into- me- see.” Instead of denying the mystery, I truly suggest that you celebrate it. BE FREE MY KINKSTERS.