Understanding that in order to be a great and outstanding Slave/Partner/Player/kinkster Ect requires Active Listening in all participating in BDSM activity. Developing the capacity for empathy means developing the ability to crawl into your partner’s skin, to understand intellectually, emotionally, and even physically what your beloved is experiencing. This requires both imagination and the ability to put aside your own feelings and self- interest, at least temporarily.
We all may find that when we communicate and feel free to express our kinky desires...new windows of uportunities and exploration to our kink, may arise to the occasion. So my KINKSTERS Be on the lookout for new sensations, and be open to the unexpected. If you can nurture this way of thinking, it will be easier to notice more subtle textures in your sexual and Bdsm encounters— from the intensely orgasmic to the gentler and less dramatic and everything in between— and you’ll be less prone to the normal human impulse to evaluate your experiences in hierarchical terms.